Custody Case Killers & Boosters
(Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants)
Ever since we were forced into the custody case arena in 1991, we have looked for
‘The Right Answer’. We wanted to know what the mediators, evaluators, and judges
wanted to hear. We were willing to paint ourselves yellow if that’s what they wanted.
(I don’t even look good in yellow.)
Years of working with thousands of other parents and grandparents individually and in
parent's rights groups, with child protective service agencies in nine major cities,
attending seminars with counselors, attorneys and psychologists and interviewing
attorneys, judges, mediators and guardian ad litems; reading many books on custody and
writing several of our own we have found out here is no "the right answer".
Our cases, lives, children, communities and the laws that affect us vary to such a huge
degree that there are too many answers. This book deals with what others do to us, what we
do to ourselves; love, pain, fear, the past, present, and future, perception and
perspective. This is not a book of legal advice or pat answers just a book of suggestions
and options. Use what you can and ignore the rest.
Reviews of
Custody Case Killers & Boosters
(Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants)
Like Chicken Soup for the custody case, "Attitude Adjustment" gave me a place
to get some perspective. And like chicken soup you can take some when ever you need it
because "It couldn’t hurt and probably, it will help".
Nash
Raeside, Long Island, NY
I was handling my custody case like a diet. I would buy and read a book and use that
system until the results seemed too slow or complicated, then dive full into yet
another (book). I was frustrated and exhausted. “Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case
Litigants” helped me use the positive points from all I have learned and even profit
from my failures. Jim Newman Miami, FL
Advice is usually given with the right intention at the wrong time. To make things
worse most advice givers are offended when you don’t jump to do what they tell you to
do. “Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants” offers you advice when you
want it and are ready to hear it. You can act on what you have learned, mull it over or
discard the advice all together without interference. Jan M.
Harrison Arlington, VA
I carry Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants in my briefcase. I read it in
low moments and feel recharged. It inspired me to overcome the negative thoughts I had
been allowing myself to have. It reminded me of my gains and what is truly important in
life. James Gourmand Billings, MT
Some of this information I already knew but hadn’t considered in this situation.
Most of this advice I had never heard at all. Until “Attitude Adjustment for Custody
Case Litigants” made it clear I couldn’t use any of it. I laughed, cried, nodded
and puzzled as to why I hadn’t seen most of this myself. Now the fog is cleared and I
can proceed. Ralph Sprague Berkley, CA
I needed something to bring me back from the crushing lows and unreliable highs that
have thrashed my emotions for the past two years. “Attitude Adjustment for Custody
Case Litigants” has given me a touchstone to reality. Clive
Friedman Upper Sandusky, Ohio
“Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants” is small, its inexpensive
and most often does more good than a long talk with a good friend because even your best
friend doesn’t really know how you feel or understand what is really happening.
Daniel Natural BC, Canada
Now I spend less time in a panic because I know what I run from and where I run to and
why. Tom Dewier near Ellis, KS
Examples of quotes and advice in
Custody Case Killers & Boosters
(Attitude Adjustment for Custody Case Litigants)
586. If the children live in more than one home, many favorite
toys will need to be duplicated.
587. Weak is a person who permits his thoughts to control his
actions; strong is a person who forces his actions to control his thoughts.
588. Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but
around in awareness. James Thurber
589. The road to success is always under construction, and is
littered with parking places.
590. Don’t spend a
Dollars worth of time on a $.10 decision.
591. Budget for visits. No matter what the reason for the
distance. It is the parents’ responsibility to make sure enough money is allotted for
bus, train or plane fares.
592. The best things in Life are not things.
593. Fear is the illusion that creates the feeling of
separateness - the false sense of isolation that exists only in your imagination.
594. Forget about keeping track of which clothes belong at which
house.
595. You have only one life. You can spend it laughing or crying.
596. You don’t get to choose how you’re going to die or
when. You can only decide how you’re going to live.
597. If your children live in a different city than you do,
subscribe to the local news paper in their town. It will help you keep up with what is
happening around them.
1447. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to
get what you wanted.
1448. Your character is your destiny.
1449. One cat at the mouse hole prevents 100 mice from entering.
Sun Tsu
1450. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in
your voice.
1451. Don’t make a permanent decision because of a temporary
situation.
1452. In disagreements, deal with the current situation. Don't
bring up the past.
1453. Others who disagree with us may not be wrong, bad or evil.
1454. Mind your own business.
1455. When someone ask you a question you don't want to answer,
smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”
1456. Take a lesson from quantum physics. When you look at
something your attention or observation changes it. What you choose to notice in the
people and events going on around you alters what occurs- even before you decide what
response you will make. Never underestimate the power of noticing.
1457. The three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others;
Responsibility for all your actions.
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